Challenge Your Self

When I’m confused with all those life, the most important to do is repairing. Trying to repair all mistakes before and avoid apathy. Trying to fulfill all of needs, need for achievement, for powerment, and for affiliation. First, need for achievement, hmm could be one of the biggest hope to be invited to international conference to present paper and essay. Second, need for empowerment? I push my effort to be a true leader, mainly for my own self first then for others. Thing mostly to do is learning, not imitation! take the lessons from every single experiences I got. Challenge my own self with all environment demand which opposite with my characteristic and personality. Not all streams must be followed, right?  Sometimes, request from inner self isn’t always to be fulfilled, the more important is to be rejected. Challenge the self and get the lesson from it! I’ve known my characters and personality. I know how people think about me, so I already have self-concept, when  not satisfied, it means I get survival anxiety and it’s great which is this feeling improve the individual to change, reject what things requested by inner self, No excuse!! Never ever let learning anxiety decrease the intention to change. The basic tendency can be changed by character adaptation, its like  biological bases could be change by adding positive external influence. Last, need for affiliation easily got from the all of kindness on own self, agreeableness will bring me and you to the tight and large social relationship.  All of us need those three basic needs, the differences are based on own target, effort and the way we complete that. Sumangaik for me, for all of us !! J